How to create relationships without sacrifice or accommodation?
Relationship expert Rori Raye has made it her mission to help women transform their love lives and create relationships where they are cherished and adored.
Her 8 rules of Circular Dating have profoundly changed the dating scene.
What's interesting is how these same rules can be used as powerful client generation strategies.
How would your business (and relationships for all you single people out there) change if you were always operating from a place of abundance and sufficiency?
Lucky for you, there are 8 easy rules you can follow now so that you never have to settle.
In many ways, these rules will create unison, harmony, and have you experiencing 'perfection' as much as possible.
If followed correctly, your results will feel like you've just won the lottery all while being able to build deep relationships without any feelings of insufficiency, bias, or lack.
And soon enough, you'll realize the inevitability of you getting everything you deserve AND MORE!
Ready?
Here we go!
Talk to 10 people at once at a minimum - keep growing your list. You should be constantly looking for prospects.
Treat everyone the same - Dream client lists are all about being biased towards a selected set of people. You should burn it! Instead, take an unbiased approach that will fundamentally allow you to live your truth.
Cut prospects out at first red flag - if someone is triggered by your busy schedule or simple demands, kindly let them know that it's going to be a hard NO to working with you!
Replace the one you dropped right away - This will help you avoid the lag period when you’re faced with 'NOs'.
Don’t commit unless you’re both sure - Don’t be the pursuer, be the pursued. When you chase cats? They run away! But when you have what the cats want? They come to you!
Always have a backup plan. If things fall short and don’t go your way, always plan to have something equally as important or fun to do in its place. This is a great way to live from an anti-fragile mindset.
Say yes to everyone - If they’re interested in you and you’re interested in them, be curious and learn what attracted them to you or why you're attracted to them. At this stage, keep rule #3 at the top of your mind.
Don’t fall in love with potential, fall in love with ‘as is’ - fantasizing about the possibilities is a dangerous game of assumption. See the individual in front of you for face value and ask yourself if you can see a long-term future with them.
Now, it’s your turn!
Which rules have you been following already?
Which ones would you like to implement in your business now?
Comment below. I want to know!
Much love,
Alex
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